Dating for women in their forties
Of Two Minds on Dating by “Doug” I know a woman in her late 40s – beautiful, elegant, sophisticated and smart (she has seen it all and not forgotten a thing) who for various reasons not uncommon in the world has not had any of her long-term relationships lead to marriage.
Two, women seem to be content in the fact that they are independent and self-sufficient and have a career, family and friends that fulfills them and don’t seem to be interested in truly finding a relationship. This gives men time to court, fall in love, travel together, move in, get engaged, and enjoy a few years of childless marriage before starting a family.Just like how you’ve dated your share of challenging types of men like the Pinger, the Couch Potato and the older-and-balder-than-his-profile-guy…men also meet and enter into relationships with less-than-impressive types of women.I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in their 40s, 50s and beyond.After some initial resistance, trepidation and disbelief, she gave the number and proceeded to have an old-fashioned summer fling with the younger man, including months of fully-planned dates to restaurants, festivals and theater (the way a young suitor might do) with flowers, opened car doors and next-day notes. I had an opportunity that seemed promising with someone my own age and I didn’t want to let it go for something that was fun but probably not long term.” The point of that story is that people can be of two minds in dating.The way she told the story was priceless, she beamed like a 10,000 watt halogen. There is a part of them that is captivated, entranced and a little naïve about the joys of dating a significantly younger person.So I thought I’d tell you about the experience men have when they’re trying to “date like a grownup.” If you’ve read my e Book, you know that I believe strongly that empathizing with men is absolutely essential to your dating and relationship success.The definition of empathy is “the power of understanding and imaginatively entering into another person’s feelings.Whether you are looking for friendship and companionship or love and trusted relationships, our senior dating service will provide you with the best online tools to simplify your search.Create your free profile and be ready to connect with loads of senior singles from the UK!I am told that women want to settle down and have kids, etc., but their actions seem to be to the contrary.At singles events, women come in groups and are reluctant to talk to men.